I remember when I was six years old I was visiting my great grandparents for the summer. They lived in Matamoros Mexico. My great grandparents were survivors of the Mexican Civil War, they were very poor, and lived in a two-room dirt floor shack. When I was young, I did not understand the concept of poverty and wealth. It is know that I look back and realize how poor my great grandparents used to be. My memories are not poverty but of the love and kindness that my great grandparents gave me. A child knows when he is loved.
Summer days in Matamoros are very hot. One day I was with my great grandfather working in his tomato garden. He was teaching me how to work. I was more an obstacle and did not provide any real help, but he had me working with him any way. He was in his mid nineties; his face was dark from many years of sun exposure. His face was covered with wrinkles and the shadow from his old hat made the wrinkles look deep and dark. His face showed years of hardship and his eyes looked tired. Sweat was running down his face and the wrinkles looked like small rivers of water dripping. He was pulling weeds and was showing me how to care for tomato plants. I remembered that he looked up, wiped the sweat off his forehead, focused his eyes at a distance, and then he turn to me and said.
Son, look at that, have you ever seen such a beautiful woman. I looked up, looked around, and was a little puzzled. I did not see a beautiful woman; I saw my great grandmother walking toward us with a pitcher of water. Young children sometimes are blunt and are very honest with what they say. I was six years old and I had an excuse. I laughed and told my great grandfather that it was grandma and that his eyes were old and not very good. I said that grandma was old like him. He turned, looked at me, and smiled. He said that at in his old age, he had just learned to how to see and now he wanted to learn how to listen.